Remember the 'slipper of discipline'
WHAT is up with all the rude children today? I remember a time when children respected people and the environment around them.
Not too long ago, a child cut in front of me while I was waiting at the Gelvandale SuperSpar counter. When I asked him what he thought he was doing, the child slowly turned around and said: "What's your problem? Move your feet, lose your seat".
I almost klapped him.
Which brings me to my next point – discipline in schools.
Personally, I feel education and discipline was severely affected when corporal punishment was abolished. My parents proved to me that pain is the fastest way to learn ...
So, I am appealing to all parents in the Northern Areas to discipline your children. Don't forget how your parents used to discipline you – that slipper and wooden spoon were fundamental. A child's character is built at home.
Don't get me wrong. I am not saying abuse your children. And I am certain most parents now look back and smile when they think of the tears that slipper brought them.
The manner in which you address someone is sometimes more important than what you have to say. What I have noticed is that often children in the Northern Areas have this smug attitude as if you owe them something.
Being nice is not hard, smile while somebody is talking to you and nod your head occasionally. That is all you need to do for that "aunty" to leave your conversation saying "Dit is nou 'n regte seun/meisie".
The stranger you speak to today could be your boss tomorrow. Think about that when you have your angry eyebrows on in a conversation.